Grief and Loss
Support Group Facilitator's Manual

by Susan Hansen, M.S.


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Facilitator's Manual for Your
Grief and Loss Support Group?

Many students today have experienced significant losses, from the death of a loved one to their parents' divorce, major life changes, friendship and relationship losses, illness or injury, and the list goes on.  Most people are not taught directly how to deal with loss or what the stages of grief or steps in the grieving process actually involve. Facilitating a grief and loss support group helps students cope with what's happening now, and it also offers them tools they can use to cope with future losses.

The Grief and Loss Support Group Facilitator's Manual contains everything a group leader needs to facilitate a 10-week grief and loss support group for students or clients ages 12 to adult.  The manual includes step-by-step activities, detailed lesson plans, handouts, support group guidelines, tips for effective group facilitation, a sample group flyer and parent permission slip, and ASCA standards for those who are facilitating a school-based support group.

The group sessions include a discussion of different types of losses, a loss checklist, the five stages of grief, five steps to take in addressing a loss, unsent letter templates, grab bag questions, and suggestions for creating a collage or other artwork to facilitate the healing process. For those who already own my earlier resource book, Tools For Your Emotional Health Toolbox, this manual includes updated lesson plans, standards, handouts, and an easier-to-read font for all materials.


What's in the Book?

Below is the table of contents for this manual, including the outline of each week's activities and two appendices with additional resources for this specific group and for school support groups in general.


Introduction    

Overall Group Objectives    

Summary of Activities  

ASCA Mindsets and Behaviors Specific to this Group  

Guidelines for Support Groups  

Tips for Effective Group Facilitation  


Grief and Loss Support Group Lesson Plans and Activities  


Session 1:  Introduction to Group / Dealing with Loss        

  • Dealing with Loss Worksheet (Guidelines for Facilitators)  
  • Dealing with Loss Worksheet  
  • I Statements and Loss (Handout)  


Session 2:  Loss Checklist           

  • Loss Checklist (Handout)  
  • Supportive Feedback and Loss (Handout)  


Session 3:  Stages of Grief             

  • Stages of Grief (Handout)  
  • Stages of Grief Worksheet  


Session 4:  Loss Survey / Introduction to Loss Packet          

  • Loss Survey  
  • Loss Packet  


Session 5:  Loss Packet, Step 1:  Tell the Story    

Session 6:  Loss Packet, Step 2:  Explore the Meanings of the Loss    

Session 7:  Loss Packet, Step 3:  Identify What Feels Unfinished       

  • Loss Letter      
  • Anger Letter  


Session 8:  Loss Packet, Step 4:  Honor What Was, and Take Steps Toward Closure    

Session 9:  Loss Packet, Step 5:  Celebrate What You Get to Keep/Create Collages  

Session 10:  Share Collages/Group Closure  


Grief and Loss Support Group Survey (Students)

Grief and Loss Support Group Survey (Parents/Guardians)


Appendix A:  Additional Resources for Grief and Loss Support Groups


Additional Unsent Letter Templates

  • Letter to an Absent Parent
  • Amends Letter
  • Loss Letter From a Loved One
  • Loss Letter After an Abortion
  • Loss Letter After a Miscarriage
  • Self-Forgiveness Letter


Suggestions for an Ongoing Grief and Loss Support Group

Grab Bag Questions (Overview)

Grab Bag Questions About Grief and Loss  


Appendix B:  More Support Group Resources


Twenty Steps to Setting Up an Effective School Support Group

Sample Support Group Flyer

Sample Parent Permission Slip

Five Stages of Group Development

Full List of ASCA Mindsets and Behaviors

Additional Resources and Susan Hansen’s Contact Information 


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